Despite what your current ideas are as an American about cheese plates, the Europeans have a preferred way to participate. Cheese is a delicate and well cultured food item. In order for each successive person to have an equal opportunity at tasting the subtleties and nuances of each cheese, all of us that are sampling should make a conscious effort to think about how we're sampling the cheese. Typically displayed on the cheese plate will be rounds, slices of rounds, blocks, pyramids, logs, etc. Some cheeses even come in little wooden boxes. Images on the left show ideal sampling sizes and cuts.
The interior and exterior of a cheese age differently and provide a gradation of flavor. The most polite way to sample cheese is to allow every person a portion of the rind. By taking a moderate and appropriately chosen sample, you - and everyone else - can experience the full range of flavor.
This blog site talks about one American's experience in Italy. It's definitely worth a quick read, because you can save yourself the same embarrassment as the blogger. The moral of the story is - it is advisable to not consume the entire cheese plate. The intention is that the plate to be sampled and then passed along to the next group of diners. It may seem like an unusual tradition, but we should put forth the effort to honor the French cheese etiquette and eat only a portion of the entire cheese selection. Is is good to remind oneself that the few samples you do choose from the plate should be savored. Remember - the idea is quality, not quantity.
A meal of more than one course usually provides plenty of food. When the cheese board or plate is passed around after the main course and before desert, it is intended for you to sample and to appreciate the delicacy and fine grade of cheese. Concentrate on transitioning your palate, and not filling your stomach. This may be difficult because you will most likely enjoy the cheese selections quite a bit.
I try to use a mnemonic to keep my correctly chosen sample portions to a minimum while still being able to appreciate the selection: SLICE - SAVOR - SHARE.
Enjoy!